monitor this

What I really wish for, sometimes, is a hall monitor for my body. Someone who could look at me every day and explain to me exactly what’s different, and exactly what hasn’t changed and tell me how things are looking and where things are going and pat me on the head and tell me that I’m not imagining things: when I think that my skin is tightening up, a bit; that my stomach isn’t nearly as floppy and my arms are slightly slimmer; and my boobs are (I’m so sorry) really not looking so hot, but at least they’re not getting smaller and isn’t that nice? Right now, it all feels like it’s in my imagination, and my imagination has never been the most stable of places, or anything to rely on, even when I’m relatively stable. Now is not a relatively stable time in my life.

My hall monitor would also tell me if I were really hungry, or if that rumbling in my belly is imaginary hunger that will go away if I just wait it out, or will go away if I drink some water, or won’t go away until I eat some tuna fish on a single slice of Alvarado St. Bakery complete protein bread (5 grams per slice!). And my hall monitor will also slap things out of my hand, or hold me down and dig them out of my mouth, if necessary, and then thwap me upside the head for even thinking about eating a slice of cake, or a cookie or a second handful of grapes or an entire pie or a box of donuts or a bakery.

My hall monitor, if I should somehow sneakily and with great stealth
and cunning circumvent her (and it’s a her, and she wears an
ankle-length khaki skirt and a maroon sweater and has a bosom like a
prow and glasses on a gold chain), will stand over me while I kneel
next to the toilet, crying, because I ate some macaroni and cheese when
I really shouldn’t have eaten macaroni and cheese and now I’m heaving
up bits of noodle and I can feel the chunks in my nose and she will
make tsk tsk noises and say “Now, we won’t be doing that again, will
we?” and while I sob about how stupid I am and how it will never happen
again, she will stroke my hair and say “I know you won’t,” and we’ll
both know that it is true.

At 6 a.m., my hall monitor will come clanging into my bedroom with a
pot and a wooden spoon, and she will say “Up now, right this second!”
and yank the covers down and unplug my electric blanket and set me on
fire, if necessary, and she will yank my charred body up out of bed and
hand me a glass of water and my crazy pill and my glasses and then
shove me into the bathroom and supervise while I brush my teeth, and
then hold out my sweatpants, one leg at a time, and haul them up and
wrestle me into my sports bra and tank top and bundle me out the door,
going “hup hup hup!” all the way down the block and onto the train and
downtown to the gym, where she will stand next to me on the treadmill
and smack my ass every time I think about slowing down. She will pull
tissues from her sleeves and hand them over to me every time I start to
weep tiny golden tears of self-pity, and then punch the incline up
another couple notches.

She will follow me out the door and sit next to me at work, nudging my
water glass in front of me, filling it up when it is empty, and
punching me in the back of the head every time I start thinking about
the vending machine. She can always tell when I am thinking about the
vending machine. I will probably quickly stop thinking about the
vending machine.

She can also tell when I’m wondering if my pants have gotten loose
because I’ve lost some inches, or if they just need to be washed.
“Inches,” she’ll say, and I will be sure I’m not crazy, because she is
my body’s hall monitor and she knows these things.  She knows I
shouldn’t be wearing trapeze shirts or wide-legged trousers, no matter
how much weight I’ve lost—and especially not together—and she will not
let me buy them, no matter how on sale they are or how very au courant
“volume” is, in fashion. “Volume!” I’ll protest, trying to pry her
fingers off the silk satin with the cunning bows. “Your hips,” she will
hiss, and bite me. “You’ll thank me for this,” she will say, as she
disappears from the dressing room and I know she’s right.

"Water weight," she’ll say. "You should have about 15 more grams of
protein today," she’ll say. "Your imagination," she’ll say. "Here’s how you
roast a chicken," she’ll say. "Here’s how you stop worrying about
everything," she’ll tell me, "because it’s my job now." "Happy birthday,"
she’ll say. "You’re 34 years old, and finally you’re doing okay. Don’t
wake up, though, because this really is such a beautiful dream."

11 Replies to “monitor this”

  1. Is it today? Oh, happy birthday, Anne!!! I hope you’re doing something widly wonderful today.

    Quite a ride, these last twelve months, huh? I hope this is the start of a beautifully magical year for you.

    And when you do find the secret to “here’s how you stop worrying about everything”…please, please let your deal ol’ pal anon know. I’m more than three years ahead of you and I’m still searching!

  2. Oh! No, it’s not today! It’s not until November 1. But thank you, guys! I will celebrate my unbirthday with delicious chicken.

  3. I want that hall monitor too!!!!
    Especially to slap unsuitable food out of my hand.
    Happy Birthday for the 1st

  4. That is exactly what I need to – someone to police me and take care of me and make me stop being the way I am. A hall monitor/nanny/personal trainer/dietician/conscience.

  5. You have the same birthday as my best friend (although she’ll be 24), and I have a few questions for you.

    When do you write? On the weekends? After work? Before work? During your lunch breaks? Are these entries/blogs/whathaveyous written daily or do you sometimes crank out a couple at a time? Are they written on the day they’re posted? How much external editing goes on? I’m just fascinated by how you manage to produce at the rate that you do, and still have a life to write about.

  6. Jamie Oliver has a great recipe for chicken on the Food Network web site.

    You could be on to something with your hall monitor, though. It’d be like having a personal trainer on crack. You could sell this service to celebrities! You’d make a billion dollars!

  7. Good lord – I want a hall monitor too! I sure could use one since I spend most of my time being a hall monitor for other people – kids, hubby, etc. I need someone to smack me around and make me act right. Here’s to hoping you have (had – I’m a little behind)a GREAT birthday!

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